You’re talking with someone and suddenly you get a feeling that something is not right. Weirdly, those alarm bells start ringing. Bizarrely, there are red flags. And you just can’t put your finger on what is amiss. Yet, you know that something is not adding up. Similarly, you have to make a decision. Logic goes […]
Life is a constant stream of experiences, all with an emotional response. We have the experience, this triggers an emotion, and we move on. Unconsciously, we resolve the experience and the emotion and then file it all away. The emotion that we attached to the experience may well change. Something very funny in the moment
We mostly know that lying is wrong. Additionally, we mostly know that the odd white lie is acceptable. Indeed, it’s those white lies that keep our relationships on something of an even keel. And I was wondering about lying given that at this time of year, those of you with young children will be making
I met someone recently who’s life had taken a steep downward turn. A couple of poor decisions had spiralled out of control, leaving him with next to nothing. He was angry. Very angry. He was directing his anger at everything and everyone. Obviously, his situation had nothing to do with anything that he had done.
Much is written about the importance of emotional intelligence. It is something that some seem to have in abundance. Equally, there are those who seem to really struggle. Importantly, it has nothing to do with general or intellectual intelligence. I’ve certainly met people who are very intelligent yet completely lack any emotional intelligence. The good