I’m fairly confident that we all, at times, think about things we’d like to do and have. Those fleeting daydreams of a better future. We allow our imaginations to run a little bit wild. And then we turn back to reality. The dreams, the aspirations, the hopes, all gone in an instant. It’s time to […]
One of my more recent clients came to me because they were experiencing overwhelming anxiety. It had gone beyond the point of feeling uncomfortable. They were now ready to take action, realising that confronting the anxiety was the lesser of two evils. And it’s an interesting thought. Some people continue with the bad feelings simply
The summer holidays have, for many, come to an end. You may be sad that it’s all over for this year. Alternatively, you may be only too glad to get back to the routine that life can offer. Of course, your feelings could be anywhere between the two. For those attending school, college, or university,
It sometimes surprises me how much therapy some people go through to address their problems. For some, it is the only way that they can move forward. They have a genuine need to resolve the past before they can think about the future. Occasionally, I meet people for whom continuing therapy has become something of
It’s today! Today A-Level results are released. A time of celebration for some. Less so for others. Crucially, a turning point for many. Those grades confirm university choices, job offers, the start of apprenticeships. Essentially, options open up. Conversely, for some, the choices become fewer. Whatever the outcome today, though, there are fifty years ahead
While at times it may not feel like it, everything in life really is a choice. Obviously, not all of the options open to us are great, and at times it can feel like picking the lesser of two, or more, evils. Even in the darkest of moments when it feels like all is lost,
If you’re reading this blog on the day it’s published, schools are about to start the long summer break. Unless, of course, you’re in Scotland. In which case, the school holidays started a few weeks ago. It’s always a strange time. Traffic suddenly gets quieter in the mornings. Workplaces are less busy as parents juggle
Many of us have things from the past which cause us angst. Some park the issues and move on. Others get stuck, held back by what appears to be unresolvable. Most, I think, sit somewhere between the two; troubled by the past yet moving forward in some form or another. The past can, though, be
Many of us make decisions in our late teens and into our early twenties which have an effect on the next thirty, forty or even fifty years of our lives. For some, this works out well, and I know many who are reaping or have reaped the rewards of those early decisions. Others struggle to
People have many reasons for avoiding plans and goals. A recurring reason is the fear of failure. Some see setting a goal or making a plan as a commitment which you either achieve or you do not. You succeed or you fail. Success may be great. Failure, on the other hand, is a disaster, worthy